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Are Family Patterns Holding You Back?

By Anuradha Dayal-Gulati
Anuradha Dayal-Gulati

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Do you feel that you are living your life in full bloom? Do you too feel as if there’s a ceiling on life that shows up in different ways?

Does the Emotional Math of Your Relationship Add Up?

By Jane Greer PhD
Jane Greer PhD

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A useful skill for finally letting in the voice of reason is to “do the emotional math.” This skill enables us to know the truth... 

How Understanding Conflict Styles Can Help You Avoid Fights

By Sam Carr
Sam Carr

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For all the joy they bring, families and close friendships often involve conflict, betrayal, regret and resentment.

4 Relationship Killers and How to Cut Them off at the Pass

By Jude Bijou
Jude Bijou

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The demise of marriages and relationships in general, is not over money, children, or health but crummy communication styles. 

A Bit of Narcissism Can Be Normal and Healthy

By April Nisan Ilkmen
April Nisan Ilkmen

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During former President Donald Trump’s campaign and presidency, the word narcissism became something of a buzzword. And in recent years the word has been popularized on social media and in the press.

Why Sibling Aggression Can Have Lifelong Repercussions

By Corinna Jenkins Tucker and Tanya Rouleau Whitworth
Corinna Jenkins Tucker and Tanya Rouleau Whitworth

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Nearly 80% of U.S. children grow up with a sibling. For many, brothers and sisters are life companions, close confidants and sharers of memories. But siblings also are natural competitors for parents’ attention.

How To Help Teen Girls’ Mental Health Struggles

By Elizabeth Englander, and Meghan K. McCoy
Elizabeth Englander, and Meghan K. McCoy

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It’s a well-established fact that children’s and teens’ mental health took a hit during the pandemic. But new research suggests that teen girls in particular are suffering in unprecedented ways.

What Is Compassionate Listening and Why It Matters

By Yang-Yang Cheng
Yang-Yang Cheng

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“Compassionate listening” is critical to interpersonal and political communication, because without it, more talking can exacerbate the existing divides and misunderstandings.

9 Rules to Make You Better at Email and Less of a Jerk-Face

By Matthew Dicks
Matthew Dicks

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Email is often a means of informal communication. As such, you can dramatically decrease the amount of time spent on email with short, efficient replies. Dispense with formalities whenever possible and in­crease efficiency.

How To Spot A Catfish Relationship

By Evita March
Evita March

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In a study by myself and Cassandra Lauder at Federation University, we wanted to find out what psychological traits were common among people who conduct behaviours associated with catfishing.

The Risks and Rewards of Being Single

By Simon Sherry
Simon Sherry

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For many people, the dominant narrative insists that to be in a romantic relationship is to be happy. And for many single people, the day can come with pressure to find a partner.

A Brief History of the Soulmate

By Tony Milligan
Tony Milligan

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One of the difficult things about working on the philosophy of love is that human relationships change, but our dominant images of love tend to remain the same.

Cupid Was Not A Chubby Cherub

By Debbie Felton
Debbie Felton

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Ah, Valentine’s Day: that Hallmark holiday of greeting cards and chocolates, its bloody origins almost entirely forgotten over the last 2,000 years!

Another Way to Have a Healthy Heart

By Alexis Blue
Alexis Blue

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Smooches and snuggles may make us feel warm and fuzzy, but they can also be good medicine, says Kory Floyd.

A 6-Step Path to Happiness and Civility

By Michael Glauser
Michael Glauser

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Civility cannot be legislated, mandated, or enforced by governments—it comes from internalizing civil values in our lives. In other words, as we become happier, we also become more civil, and becoming more civil reinforces our happiness.

Want To Avoid Your Heated Arguments?

By Paul Hanel et al
Paul Hanel et al

Want To Avoid Your Heated Arguments?

Listening to people talk about views that clash with your own can be galling. Families all over the world avoid controversial topics. In the UK, for example, mention Brexit and watch everyone in the room tense up.

Are Children’s Blunt Polite Truths Judged More Harshly than Their Lies?

By Laure Brimbal
Laure Brimbal

a mother talking to her child

Lying is typically viewed negatively. In fact, being judged a liar is often seen as one of the worst characteristics you can ascribe to someone.

What To Do About People With Dark Personality Traits

By Cinthia Beccacece Satornino
Cinthia Beccacece Satornino

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Have you ever suffered through tales of greatness from a self-absorbed “friend” who reminds you of Michael Scott from “The Office” – and not in a good way?

How to Help Your Child Develop Resilience

By Sarah Jefferson
Sarah Jefferson

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That’s the mantra many parents may have in mind when they, like me, spend what feels like years ferrying children to a seemingly endless variety of sports and activities.

Storytelling Allows Elders to Transfer Values and Meaning to Younger Generations

By Mary Ann McColl
Mary Ann McColl

an older man speaking with a young adult over a cup of tea

Repeated storytelling is a key method for elders to communicate what they believe to be important to their children and loved ones.  

How Spatial Thinking Can Help Children Learn Math

By Emily Farran
Emily Farran

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Do you struggle to visualise how to rotate your shoes so that they nest together in a shoe box? How are you with flat-packed furniture? Are you good at giving directions?These everyday activities require spatial thinking.

Why Loneliness Is Both an Individual Thing and a Result of Cities

By Jennifer Kent et al
Jennifer Kent et al

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If you’re feeling lonely, you’re not alone. Loneliness is an increasingly common experience, and it can have severe consequences. People who feel lonely are at higher risk of serious health issues, including heart disease, immune deficiency and depression.

How to Talk to Someone about Conspiracy Theories in Five Simple Steps

By Daniel Jolley, Karen Douglas and Mathew Marques
Daniel Jolley, Karen Douglas and Mathew Marques

two people sitting down having a conversation

People’s first instinct when engaging with conspiracy believers is often to try and debunk their ideas with factual and authoritative information.

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Quiet quitting isn’t just about doing less. It’s a quiet scream for help echoing through open offices and Zoom calls. People are showing…

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